What is BDSM?

Most men living in the West would feel shocked when they hear the term BDSM. However, those who know BDSM believe that it is a form of eroticism which has its origins in the S&M community in the United Kingdom. The fact that this form of eroticism has taken such a firm hold in the world of adult entertainment tells us a lot about the way people perceive real sex. The fact that people enjoy BDSM as a lifestyle choice speaks volumes about how acceptable it is in the wider society. More than that, it speaks about how much people value their sensual experiences.

So, what exactly is BDSM? BDSM stands for bondage, domination, submission and massage. This is referring to the practice of sexual role-playing, which involves dominant and submissive partners who practice sexual rope tying, domination and even sadism. And if you ever think that you only ever had sex once and saw it in a porn movie, you’re deeply wrong.

Many people find that they grow so enamoured of BDSM that they want to pursue it as a profession. They organise themselves in study groups set up their own websites and actively seek out people to participate in the lifestyle. They often spend a lot of time ‘trying out’ new things – as well as getting curious about new toys. Those involved in BDSM usually do not take their clothes off, but they also don’t bathe either – so what they’re wearing all depends on what they want. Some people even spend their time dressed in drag.

Part of the attraction of going on a ‘bond break’ with someone from France is that you get to experience something unique. For instance, one of the most popular experiences is to ‘cuddle’ – or spend a few hours cuddling up in bed with another person, in full view of other people. This type of intimate encounter offers a wonderful window into fantasies that many people have. It’s common for those on a ‘bond break’ to return to their exotic experience with a newly-weds in order to relive the feelings of love and adoration that they had on their trip.

BDSM in Paris offers a more extreme experience and is also open to those who are interested in exploring alternative sexualities. As well as cuddling, some people choose to perform a variety of fetish acts – including ‘sitting up’, ‘legs crossing’, ‘spinning around’ and more. These acts are very popular with the exotic lingerie crowd in particular, and it doesn’t matter which people you’re with. What matters is the fact that you have a beautiful woman or man by your side, enjoying the same exotic lifestyle that you do.

If you’re interested in trying out this lifestyle in Paris, there are a number of ‘BDSM in Paris ‘services that are available. Many people living here are open to allowing people into their home to ‘practice their moves’. For instance, you could allow a friend to spend the night in your home and practice ‘sitting up’ in your bed. If you don’t feel like allowing another person into your private life, there are plenty of services that can arrange for people to visit your private room – at your expense of course!